Most young habitancy within the ages of 15 to 30 have been heart broken or have broken someone's heart. Victims of heartbreak often go straight through emotional disorder or even commit suicide due to disappointment.
At 28, Paul, an Architect has encounter 2 heartbreaks.The last association he had was with Tina. Tina jilted him for Paul's best friend out covetousness. Paul felt disappointed and almost committed suicide, but for the quick intervention of his neighbour. "I don't think I will ever love a lady again and I cannot give any lady my trust, they are all cheats". Paul lamented. Paul finds it difficult to love again and prefers being a play boy.
Tessy's caress is almost similar to that of Paul. At 26, Tessy, a Banker is yet to find her Mr. Right. She has experienced several heartbreaks from separate men. Her last jilter was Femi. Tessy and Femi had a level relationship. The had both done the ceremonial traditional wedding. The planned to get married in three months time, until Femi lustfully impregnated his secretary in the office. He had no choice than to claim accountability and father the child. Tessy now holds the concept that all men are wolves dressed in a sheep clothing.
Heartbreak comes with emotional breakdown, distrust, hatred and most times mental disorder. There are so many things that lead to heartbreak. Below are some of the few causes of heartbreak.
1. Lack of love: Love is the foundation in which every association is built. When you are into a association that your partner never had true love for you, but got into the association for a selfish reason, the so called love tends to depreciate and later die. The unlikeness between true love and false love is that true love does not ware out and does not die, but false love dies. When the love ultimately dies, the association also dies, thereby, prominent to heartbreak.
2. Misunderstanding: I have seen so many relationships and marriages breaking up due to misunderstanding, lack of trust or lack of love between the two parties. Because of misunderstanding in a relationship, A association will die prematurely. In other words, one of the party's heart is broken.
3. Covetousness: Having a very strong desire for other person's man or woman at price of your own partner causes heartbreak. Once a partner becomes covetous, he or she ends up putting the other party at emotional disorder and mental degradation. The first heartbreak I caress was due to covetousness. My partner left me for other man, who was a little bit richer than I. Most covetous habitancy end up regretting their operation after breaking their partner's heart. There is common adage that says,"The Devil you know is best than the angel you don't know". This leads me to other adage that says " It is not all that glitters that is gold".
Emotional breakdown is a step to suicidal track. Heartbreaks have lead to the untimely death of so many people. In a bid to treat or cut emotional breakdown or mental degradation due to heartbreak. I have decided to give some tips on how to deal with heartbreaks. Here are some tips:
1. Make yourself believe that he or she is not meant for you by changing your style of thinking
2. Convert your wardrobe and make yourself look good.
3 Make new friends
4. Open up to man you can trust, because some problems shared are times half solved
5. Try to be creative and have a confident mentality.
6. Finally, socialise with new friends, old friends, family members, colleagues, etc.
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